Good Morning, Meetpastordan Readers…I know we have all heard, and probably even repeated, phrases such as, “life is fleeting, so make the most of every moment”, or “live today to the fullest because you never know what tomorrow will bring.” Those are well meaning phrases, actually words of encouragement, intended to bring a sense of peace to someone wanting to make a decision about the future, but perhaps still a bit unsettled. I know I have used both phrases numerous times, and truth be told, Pam and I have consciously tried to live that attitude throughout our marriage. But think about what remains when the words of encouragement are lifted. What is left are two life-truths that each of us will have to deal with some day: “life is fleeting” and “you never know what tomorrow will bring.” I don’t think most people dwell on those two truths for any length of time. I know we didn’t. We were too busy making the most of every moment, and living our life together to the fullest. So, my question to you is, “what will happen when your world is turned upside down? Have you thought about that?”
Unfortunately, Pam and I are living that scenario right now. Let me give you a brief history. On December 10th of 2018, I had knee replacement surgery. Pam cared for me during my healing process. On December 21st, 2019 our roles changed when she had two disks replaced in her cervical spine. On January 15th of this year, she had a second surgery, a lumbar decompression in her lower back. Back pain and nerve pain are common with this surgery, and can last for a month or two after surgery. But shortly after that procedure, other issues began to raise their ugly heads. Muscle weakness got worse on a day by day basis, dizziness and balance issues became more prominent, along with excruciating lower back pain that radiated down her legs. At this time, she was using a walker, but she still experienced two falls.
Last Friday, she passed out in the bathroom. I took her to the emergency room where they treated her for dehydration and messed-up electrolytes. She came home that afternoon. The next Monday morning, I took her back to the ER when she said she had problems raising her arms and her legs were too weak for the walker. This time they admitted her to the hospital, and she was there for five days under the scrutiny of five specialists ordering test after test after test including two brain scans and a spinal tap. All the test results are not back yet, but the consensus of the five specialists seems to be MS. Talk about a shocker! Wow!
The point is, when we are faced with a traumatic issue such as an unexpected illness, a divorce, or financial collapse, we have one of two options. We can either shake our fist at God and say, “Why God? Why is this happening? We can be angry with Him, maybe we even blame Him, OR we can press into Him as our source of strength, and ask for wisdom, courage, patience and perseverance to deal with this in a way that honors Him. Pam and I have chosen the latter.
I keep thinking to myself, “What do people do in catastrophic situations when they are not in Christ?” Where do they find their source of strength? As followers of Jesus Christ, we are heir to all the spiritual blessings in the heavenly realms, which includes spiritual healing; we are heir to all the promises in the Bible, which are numerous, and we are gifted with the indwelling Holy Spirit who empowers us to rise above our circumstances. Jesus was blatantly up-front about what it means to be a Christ-follower. He never soft pedaled it, and He never promised us a rose garden. “In this world you will have trouble. But fear not, for I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33) What that Scripture means to those of us in Christ is this…if Jesus has overcome the world, so have we!
Last week I used a quote from Neil Anderson, author of “Victory Over the Darkness” which seems very appropriate here: “Do not let your circumstances or your feelings define you, because both can change. Instead, stand on the truth of what God’s Word says about you.” (I’m a Child of God; I’m forgiven; I’m unconditionally loved; God delights in me; He created me for a relationship with Himself; He will never leave me nor forsake me; God is merciful and full of grace; He is faithful.)
Whenever anyone is faced with trials and tribulations, you can count on satan, our adversary, to show up to amplify your pathos. This is when he is at his worse. His primary purpose is to keep us separated from God, and he will use every lie, deception, or scheme in his playbook to keep us focused on our circumstance, or in this case, our pain and suffering, rather than on God…the source of our strength. C.S. Lewis explains this tactic in his famous book, “Screwtape Letters”. Screwtape, satan, teaches his nephew, Wormwood, the art of deception. “Wormwood, you should make the patient focus on his own feeling instead of God. You should make the patient want to feel better rather than praying for forgiveness or courage. This way the patient will try to feel forgiven or feel brave. Humans do not know our full power, Screwtape writes, so they can easily be tricked into following our lead.” (Screwtape Letters, Letter 4)
Apostle Paul’s rebuke to the above presentation can be found in 2 Corinthians, 10:5: “We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ” When we are dealing with pain and suffering, it is very real. And don’t think satan doesn’t know that, because he is the author of pain and suffering. His ploy is to make that pain and suffering more real to us than our God. This is a pretension that we must demolish by standing on the truth of God’s Word. Here are some truths we can stand on. “He forgives all my sins, and He heals all my diseases.” (Psalm 103:3) “God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” (Matthew 5:4) “He (Jesus) healed people who had every kind of sickness and disease.” (Matthew 4:23) “So we don’t look at the troubles we can see right now, rather, we look forward to the joys yet to come.” (2 Corinthians 4:18) “For He was wounded for our transgressions; He was bruised for our iniquities; the chastisement for our peace was upon Him, and by His stripes we are healed.” (Isaiah 53:5) And, because we are in Christ, “we are heir to every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms”, one of which is spiritual healing. (Ephesians 1: 3) Now that we know we are healed in the spiritual realm, we can pray for the manifestation of that healing in the physical realm. As followers of Jesus Christ, we are heir to every one of those promises.
So here is where the rubber hits the road. Do you believe those promises are true? Do you think they pertain to you and your situation right now? Are you willing to trust God to be faithful? Remember what Jesus said to Jairus when he got word his daughter had died; He said, “Don’t be afraid. Trust Me!” (Luke 8:50) That’s the same message Jesus gives to all of us today when we are going through a crisis. Our challenge is to believe that our God is more real than our circumstances.
Pam and I have talked about our situation and what it may mean in the short term, and possibly in the long term. We are committed to keeping our focus on the prize at the end of this journey, which for us is restoration of her body, and a return to some semblance of normalcy. Our challenge will be the same as everyone else’s: Not to be afraid, but to trust Him! Our confidence lies in the fact that we know our source of strength, and we know the Holy Spirit is a gift to empower us to do things that we can’t do through our own effort. We will call on Him for His wisdom, His strength, His courage, His patience, and His perseverance as we follow our commitment to dig ourselves out of this dark place. No doubt satan intends to use this infirmity to separate us from God’s love, but we are counting on the Holy Spirit to bring this tribulation to victory! “The Spirit that is in me (the Holy Spirit) is greater than the spirit in this world.” (satan) 1 John 4:4.
We ask everyone who reads this to lift us up in prayer. Please pray with us that we will face this journey in a way that brings honor and glory to His holy name!
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May God Bless Ya…
Dan Presgrave (a.k.a. Pastor Dan) and Pam
Hi Dan,
I’m sorry to hear about this latest development. You and Pam are on my prayer list.
Chris
Thank you so much, Chris. I know you get it… you’ve been there and you have hung tough. You’re an inspiration to me. May God bless you and Yvonne.
Beloved Brother and Sister in Christ,
I know of no simple or eloquent words to say that will minister greater than the Word of our Lord and our God…..Jesus wept.
May seem out of context just now, but if given a bit of contemplation we can receive in all likelihood the immeasurable value of Love.
The God we serve has a name, LOVE. We love, because He loves us FIRST! Amen.
LOVE has wept for each human being created in His image…specifically, for those who have rejected Him.
A God that can weep for us when we reject Him? Unbelievable, but of course, all things are possible with a God such as ours. Amen.
When the path is unbearably hard, when the will is especially weak, and when the cry in the depth of our soul is the agonizing horror of “What Now?!?” I encourage you, Remember, these Words, “Do This In Remembrance of Me”
We can remember, Be still, and Know I AM.
The One who cried holy tears and continued to persevere, not half-heartedly, but with all He had to offer….His deepest sorrow….and His greatest NEED….to bring the pleasure to the Father, the One who was waiting, looking and longing for those sons and daughters, those children of His Creation. Glory to God!
Yes, our God values each tear that touches our face, He captures them and mingles them with the NEED we all have for knowing the forgiveness of such a God.
A God Mighty enough and willing enough to be the One who pushed all the way through and made the Way when there seems to be no way.
I kneel before the throne of our God and I weep my tears of longing for the miracle move of our God; the God who knows our name and keeps our name engraved on the palm of His hand.
I imagine when we are grieving, hurting, feeling tried beyond our human abilities, He ever so gently touches our name, whispers into His hand and He Remembers us…the children He came to serve, to share and to weep over when we are too blind to see….God is Love and Love Never Fails….
I offer you one truth that has helped so many of God’s children; God owns us…He is a jealous God, He is pursuing you, dearest Dan and Pam, He is relentless… with a godly jealousy, a righteous jealousy, because He has full ownership of His creation….Be Still…deep breath, listen. Turn and be face to face with the One who has taken your captivity captive and offers you the full force of More Than Enough!! LOVE NEVER FAILS…In Jesus name. Glory to God!
Surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses. Hallelujah! There is a Sound to LOVE, the breath of Life is filled with the Sound…. it is the whisper of the Spirit, the perfect timing, the rest, that creates the music that moves the soul to greater heights. Now, imagine the Symphony of Heaven rejoicing over your place of ownership! Glory to God!! Thank You Jesus. Thank You. Amen.
Thank you so much, Darlene. What an absolutely eloquent presentation of God, the one who loves us, who delights in us, who picks us up and cleans us up for his service, who’s faithfulness is beyond comprehension, who’s grace is immeasurable, who is our rock, our salvation, our shield and our protector, who is the Creator of the universe, the God-head of the Trinity, the onmiscience, omnipotent, omnipresent One, the immutable One, and the Alpha and the Omega…Yet, He wants a relationship with us. He wants us to love Him back. Wow! God is good all the time; all the time God is good. He introduced Himself to Moses as “I AM”. We humbly proclaim back to Him…YOU ARE!!!! Our God is more real than the author of pain and suffering. Why would we doubt a complete restoration and a joyous future? Not us. We’re already victorious!
Dan,
When I posted on your FB page, I hadn’t read your entire column yet…wow! I am so sorry to hear about what’s happening in Pam’s health journey! However, your testimony on how you look to the Lord and stand on His word is so strong!!
I have been in much pain through cervical spine issues for the past several weeks and am in in the middle of testing and pain relief measures to get a game plan together with my Dr. Please know how much you have encouraged me in posting as you have done. I feel so very uplifted by reading your words, and your quoting of God’s word back to me. We serve a strong and awesome God, no doubt!! God bless you and Pam!!
With love in our Savior,
Linda Gurney
Thank you so much for your response, Linda. We will lift you up in prayer that your will find relief from your suffering. But was you said, we serve and awesome, faithful God. Our trust is in Him!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
John and Ruth Panhorst
Thank you, John. We certainly appreciate your prayers.
Dan, I’m so very sorry to learn of Pam’s
illness. You both are in my prayers.
Marianne
Thank you so much, marianne. We certainly appreciate your prayers.
HI Dan. I’m really sorry to hear about this medical challenge for Pam, and for you. Please know that I’ll be praying for both of you.
Thank you so much, Bob. I certainly appreciate your prayers.
Great article, Dan !
Thank you, Kristy
Dan- you know I am praying for both of you – and I too am having nasty back and neck issues that bring me to such discouraging thoughts – but received such hope from your message. I was particularly struck by your passage from the great CS Lewis book-Screw tale Letters where Satan tells Wormwood to make the patient focus on his own feeling instead of God- I think I may be stuck here – I pray constantly for healing but rarely for forgiveness or direction! I keep forgetting about Satan lurking around and wanting to separate me from God! Thank you again my friend for the reminder.
Thank you, Pat for your response. It is much appreciated